When I was completely crazy  I thought I could telepathically send him what I needed from him at that moment like emailing me or calling me or what I wanted him to do in session. I am so embarrassed now when I think of that. I also thought by me posting what I wanted from him on this forum that he would read it and now how to proceed.
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When a child’s emotional needs are not met and a child is repeatedly hurt and abused, this deeply and profoundly affects the child’s development. Wanting those unmet childhood needs in adulthood. Looking for safety, protection, being cherished and loved can often be normal unmet needs in childhood, and the survivor searches for these in other adults. This can be where survivors search for mother and father figures. Transference issues in counseling can occur and this is normal for childhood abuse survivors.
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