Ok, so here it is -- here is what I found out about him.

He told me on Saturday that he has a history of cheating in most his relationships (if not all). I knew he had kissed other women while in his marriage, but I chalked it up to a one-off and because they lacked intimacy throughout their marriage. On Sat he told me he is a "man who.re".

So... that's what I've been holding back on talking about on here and why it needs to end.

I could never trust him with my heart and feelings. I cannot get serious with him in knowing that he may cheat on me at any time. I could never trust him, even IF he tells me he wants to change. His track record says he has a serious commitment problem and a problem being monogamous. AND, IF I did proceed and then got hurt, he has an excuse because he told me already and I have only myself to blame.

I am beyond disappointed and disheartened. He seemed like such a great guy. Someone on here had said before that maybe because he looks in the mirror a lot that he would want a lot of attention from women. Now I know this to be the case, given this new info.