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Originally Posted by TishaBuv
What do men do on those sites? They look at photos looking for pretty faces, then they check for good bodies, then they maybe read the blurb to see if they relate to her. I think both sexes make a split, subconscious decision of doable or not, then they say ‘hi’.
If the OP stipulates in her blurb, “don’t bother messaging me if you are only going to say one word,” and they still just say ‘hi’, that means they didn’t even read her blurb.
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I disagree. Sure, people looking for sex or something superficial may take that approach to dating. However, quality people looking for a real relationship do not. Personally, when I date online, my top factors are education, grammatically correct blurbs, career, and desire to have children. Yes, someone has to look attractive, but I would be completely turned off by a cleavage shot and count them out as “sleazy.” I think people should present themselves and what they are looking for authentically— then let the right people respond.