The problem for me is I am a therapist.
I know the course of action that should be taken but I don't feel even remotely ready to take that course of action.
Since I started losing weight it was always 'I need to just get down to such and such weight' then when I did I moved the goal post.
I have dealt with what happened with my husband.
He would like to come back, it's me that says no.
Esther - do you think I am an average weight?
My immediate reaction to reading that was one of disgust, and I don't mean that against you, that my weight is average. I thought, 'Right I definitely need to lose more weight then if I am only average now'.