I sent the counselor a nice thank you note over the holidays suggesting that I was "done" and the card was kind of a closure. I cancelled the phone meet scheduled for the new year. If there was a thread she was making it more solid than I was and all along it felt creepy. She was promoting a dependency I never wanted. I will never enter into another therapy relationship. Don't like the strings...the attachment...the dependency. I just want a professional who will offer some good coping skills...but I never get that...and always find my own in books and online. This string weaver had too high an opinion of herself...she wasn't much help and was irritating a lot of the time. This is always how I relate to counselors...then I cut the cord. Stupid dance.