I was 5'6" and weighed 127 no matter what I ate. I had no fat on my body at all (sank doing dead man's float). Others, and other people's thoughts in the aggregate are often a good indication of what the reality is, after I gained weight, told me I had been too skinny.

If you are a therapist and question, feel you know the course of action that needs to be taken but don't wish to take it, etc., then I definately think you should be seeing another therapist before you compromise your physical health?