All good points!

I don’t think that anyone judged you though or said it’s your fault (if they did I didn’t see) but more like trying to help you with this and people were supportive. Maybe not supportive in the way you’d like but that’s a nature of online forums. It’s not the same as with face to face therapy or friendship.

Plus people might be triggered by certain things. I am fortunate enough to not encounter cheaters in my love life but others were maybe cheated on, so reading that someone routinely cheats on women/wife etc perhaps triggered people to respond certain way.

Frankly he isn’t member on here so we don’t realky have any loyalty to him. No one likes to see posters on here upset though. So concern is to help you, maybe not the way you’d like to be helped. But we tried.

Good luck with job interviews!