Sometimes I have an impression that people who don't understand (or underestimate) things like attachment or importance of a relationship with T just don't get the whole idea of "insight therapy"... For me, it's quite clearly explained (how does this therapy work) in books or some websites.

Anyway, at the moment I'm listening to the podcast from the other thread. And I found one quite interesting on this topic:
The Essentials of a Therapeutic Relationship, Getting What You Want