Well, I'm in a corner and guess I just have to stay there and give up. Through my supes "session" if you want to call it, I was manipulated in this way:

She kept hammering words like "want", "need", "get" and "only" in the most insecure way imaginable (I couldn't make up the stuff being said) toward wanting some sort of relationship with my best friend. She was there watching the whole thing BTW because she is in protective mode for her master who drove the wedge between us. With the constant hammering, she actually made me feel and look insecure and I ABSOLUTELY DID NOT LIKE IT! Once I gained my composure as I said and walked out of the room, I was JUST FINE with a spring in my step. I don't know if anyone saw me in the window like that or not but I absolutely don't care.

So, I now know how she is being controlled to see me as this. This two-faced sociopath is now being promoted because he's such a nice guy and she will still continue to suffer I guess At least I can still care about her and it keeps me going.