It had nothing to do with his looks. It was his behavior that was creepy. Like, he wouldn't say how he knew about the event or anything. If he had even said, well I saw you were attending and I wanted to meet you in person. ..that would have been less creepy than this like stalker behavior, trying to catch me unaware.

It was also the very personal nature of his discussion while I'm trying to professionally network.

I try not to judge people on their looks. As an artist myself, I find merit in the sculpture of lots of different body types. I also like the way a person makes me feel, if they carry on good conversation, and I feel safe with them. This did not feel safe.

And I've gone on plenty of planned dates with cute guys who stare at my chest and I don't go out with them a second time either. It has nothing to do with looks. He stated at my chest the WHOLE time and made no eye contact whatsoever. That was creepy.