You’ve contradicted yourself, which is actually a good thing for once because it provides clear perspective.

You don’t want to leave because you’re 33, want to make babies and raise a family and fear if you leave him it won’t happen.

Well you may as well leave because it’s not happening with him. You’re not having sex, and last I checked the stork was an old wives tale. [emoji854]

Besides, even if you could bring yourself to swallow your resentment and make sweet sweet love to this man... would it really be fair to bring innocent children into this toxic mess you two have grown so accustomed to?....

Me thinks not.

You two sound more addicted to each other than in love with each other, I too found myself in that boat some years ago.

It did not end well, we ended up bringing out the worst in each other.

Or maybe he was a monster all along and just brought out the worst in me, not sure. Either way we crashed, we burned and years later I am still dealing with the aftermath.

Listen to the logic in your beautiful contradiction.

Leave