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Originally Posted by SalingerEsme
Wow well my T got really mad, like a normal person mad and lost his T costume . He said that reading into or trying to figure out why he said I will Be Out Of Town at the doorknob was setting hm up and shutting him down and reactions I didnt understand. He is usually very composed and thoughtful in every response. I am worried I hurt his feelings, and I have no clue what transpired and escalated.
Even though Elio sees my point, my T absolutely doesnt, and he won't back down even a tiny bit to see any part of my viewpoint. It is very unlike him.
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Wow, what an odd thing to get angry about! Now I just want to analyze it even more. I'm sorry he had this inexplicable reaction. I don't think it's the client's job to worry about the therapist's feelings, and I'm sorry he put you into that position. My T would absolutely want to talk about her timing (she wouldn't have done that in the first place) and my feelings about what happened. So odd that he got defensive. You really didn't deserve that response.