TY so much, Purple!

Yes, he was ALMOST right... so close!!!! But the cheating thing, the more it sinks in, the more I realize that I could never be fully comfortable with him....

I had a boyfriend who had cheated on his ex before me. I was always watching him because of this, always wary and always looking over my shoulder. I never fully trusted him..... we had to have multiple conversations about it. He didn't trust me either because he did not trust his ex as well. That leaked into our relationship. It got so bad that neither one of us wanted the other to go out to a bar alone, so we had an agreement that we wouldn't do that to keep the trust. Unhealthy.

I think it was Christina who made the connection between this guy looking in the mirror at himself and probably needing a lot of female attention. Now that I know he perpetually cheats, I think she was absolutely 100% accurate on that assumption.