Well he has a place of his own, he was visiting over the weekend. She thought Sunday was Monday and we were running late for work. She knows my job is important to me to catch up on bills and have a sense if independence. I believe it was a mistake on her part. But they are both in a huff about it, him more than her. He doesn't plan to come up anymore and told me to bring all his stuff. I told him if he plans to break up with me that he should just drive up and get his stuff. He says he doesn't plan on breaking up with me. I can't get him to understand her stance. I have told him to contribute some money for food or to bring some groceries that makes her happy, though we eat out most of the time he's here. But that was before the big fight. Mom is more forgiving than him it seems and I've had to work on her to get her to forgive him for his angry outburst towards her. I hate being stuck in the middle.