To a degree I understand where you are coming from, but I'm not mind boggled or irritated about things. I have a very business like relationship with my therapist. I have no attachment, I don't see her as a friend, I don't contact her after hours, I've never looked her up on the internet and I don't think about her outside of therapy. I still have very productive sessions and it works for me. However I love hearing about other peoples experiences. Its eye opening. The more I read, the more I know. I know a lot of people here won't understand my seemingly cold approach to therapy, but I hope they wouldn't judge me for it. The journey is so individual. I truly enjoy learning how other people feel and where they are coming from.