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Originally Posted by golden_eve
I disagree. My ex fiance, unlike what people here think, did not use me. He was deeply in love with me. This last guy did not use me either and told me he loves me. You are wrong. And I most certainly did not allow anyone to use me. I resent that. Please don't throw out assumptions on situations you don't know enough about. You weren't a part of my relationship with either man. You did not witness how they were with me. I find your post to be very triggering.
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When someone says they "love" you it may not mean to that person what it means to you. You are correct, all I know about these relationships is what you have shared of them. You don't have to accept, nor am I expecting you to accept anything I say or suggest based on what you have shared. A man can be with several women and love them all, but doesn't stay committed to one woman and may be more committed to something else, example alcohol, needing to be with more than one woman, loves something "more than" like his career, his sports, etc. etc.