• Lamictal - it can be used for anger management. Kids with autism can use it, for example, as my psychologist once told me.
• Abilify - it can be used to treat mood disorders in general, not just BP.
• Latuda - same as Abilify. Especially useful for treatment resistant mood disorders.

Do you have a therapist or psychiatrist you can talk to? (I don't know if you're getting meds from a GP or someone else.) You can have a great discussion about your concerns with respect to BP. I've had these discussions with both my psychiatrist and my therapist a couple of times.