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Old Jan 12, 2018, 04:16 PM
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Also might not sound good....what’s wrong with period sex if you’re using condoms anyway. If it’s a cleanup issue keep a towel handy.
The idea & timing of this might surprise him & keep his mind busy....which should be on pleasuring you, not how fast he’s going to come. So a change in the expected might help.

Do u put the condom on him? Have u tried that? Or putting it on differently say....with your mouth?

If he’s had sex before in another relationship & didn’t have any issues what’s the variables that could be different?

Are you getting any satisfaction of an orgasm in the last 7months or has the focus been solely on penetration?
And if he’s only 30 yrs old....can he go again in 20-30min? Have you tried that? This might be key to moving into a relaxed state for him.

Just some ideas.....
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