Judging me from other people's perspectives. I think if we could all stop judging each other we'd certainly have a lot more friends. I'm guilty of this somewhat, there are many people I wouldn't be friends with. I think we naturally like people with some common interests and values. I'm not saying anything new here. But witholding judgement until you get to know a person first hand, as in only talking to that person without other peoples gossiping interfering, certainly helps. It's one reason why I never liked being a hairstylist, women love to gossip after the last client leaves.