I guess "hate" is either the wrong word you wanted to convey your feelings with , or a very strong emotion . I also don't hate people , but I have no confidence or desire to put my trust in them . Pretty much they have no impact on me , so I guess I'm apathetic to humans . The way you go from hate to apathy is to take their power away . Don't except them to care or understand . Expect the opposite and don't give them ammunition to use against you . If we all are truly honest our own issues are more important to us than other people's issues . So it's not surprising that people are not really invested in our issues . Up until the age of 15 I wanted people to understand and accept me and this caused me a lot of disappointment. It was then that I made a life long decision that no one would would have that control of my feelings again . Doesn't mean you have to become a b#stard p#ick , in fact you can be as compassionate as you wish to be , you just don't require anyone's validation or approval . Their opinion no longer matters and you no longer feel a strong emotion towards them .