I know the feeling. The good thing is that you know what the reality of the relationship. That’s important. I think many people get lost and think that their T is an actual friend. I believe some Ts are closer to certain clients more than others. I’m sure they have their favorites and some that they will do more than for others. However when push comes to shove for the most part it’s a career and their priorities are at home. Some will reach out more than others.

It’s very common to see clients attached to their Ts and go the extra mile for them. I’m not sure how healthy that is overall. I also have attachment issues with my T but I’ve cancelled appts and I’ve been on many breaks. Even though I’m attached to her I know for certain that shes not caring if I go to session or not. I think it’s important to make that distinction. $90 is a high price to pay for aattachment and when I get home I have nothing to show for it.