So basically she invalidated you and then blamed you for feeling invalidated. Some people might like their therapists to treat them that way. I don't. It sounds like you don't either.
There are plenty of therapists out there and every single one of them has a different style and the potential for a different connection with you. If this was a one-off and you generally click with her you might like to try and work it out with her. If you don't really feel much of a connection with her anyway you might like to see if you can find a different therapist.
The choice and control is yours.