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Originally Posted by here today
I think I get it. Tell me if I'm wrong, though, because I'm extrapolating from my experience.
You got something from her, from being with her. And then she badly hurt your feelings and disappointed you by double-booking and the slow texts and trouble finding an appointment time. It's like she filled a lack or a void in your life that you didn't know you had. And then she messed up and it was intolerable and so you quit. But now you feel the void. Sucks!
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Basically. I’ve been seeing her for over 5 years and slowly I was opening up. I was hoping to get deeper into my issues and I was developing trust. We’ve had so many Ups and downs. I was finally feeling like things were better since my last therapy break. Then this happens and she just shrugs it off as human error. Then we talked about scheduling again which i shouldn’t have. She seems more distant and not motivated at all. In the past she would struggled and kept in touch more until we would come to an agreement. Just a huge disappointment in every way. Every time I took a break it was because she would just upset me so Many times by either answering phones during session or being mia during a crisis. A crisis to me is not a crisis to her. So if she doesn’t consider something a crisis like suicide then she won’t answer. The one time I texted her about cutting and she never answered. A week later I saw her for my sesssion and she asked me if I cut myself because she didn’t know what happened to mThe text. She couldn’t explain that one much like the double booking. I guess I’m better off without her. I refuse to go through this for someone else and pay for it.