One thing I've learned on this road of life I'm on... everyone has to find their own path. Life paths are certainly not one-size-fits-all!

I've felt more than once in the past 6+ years with current t that I wanted to throw my process out the window, y'know the whole throw the baby out with the bathwater thing. Right now I'm on an indefinite break from therapy basically because I'm ready to end it but t won't give me the ending I want, she just keeps calling it a "break". And I'm beginning to see that well, maybe that has more to do with her own path than mine and I need to find the closure I seek inside myself and continue doing my work in other ways. When I told her that she didn't understand it, the doing my work in other ways. But well, that's her path, she still talks to her own t, doesn't mean it has to be mine.

And isn't that part of what this whole process is about, anyway? Finding our Self, our own path through life?

Not everyone is going to be successful with every t. And I don't think everyone necessarily needs therapy, either.

Well I'm certainly wordy this morning..... anyway I wish you all the best! I think you should do what's best for you. And you are the one that would know that better than anyone.