It’s of course entirely up to you. I totally understand mementos and am very sentimental and passionate and all. I also understand wantinh memory and closure. I have jewelry from my ex husband who we raised our daughter with and have jewelry from my ex significant other with whom I spent almost 9 years together, 6 of which we lived together as a family and are still in touch (his kids and mine remained friends). I’d never get rid of those things.

I cherish things I have from my husband, my mother, my grandparents etc I have hard time comprehending wanting to get a gift from someone I dated and slept with for few weeks while he was still talking to other women on dating sites, you give your heart so fully and are so devoted to men who honestly just don’t deserve it.

Of course it’s no big deal if you meet but that’s two steps backwards again. Maybe your therapist will have a different view on this. Mine is as blunt as me, she’d be like “he is unhealthy, no need to drag it”

Take care of yourself please

Never mind I see your other post. You slept with someone else already (nothing wrong wuth that but dang it, you are quick!). Just be safe!