Una, I loved your post, and genuinely thought it was funny. It would be hilarious if it was a guy thing.
Maybe I was unreasonable. We went from missing no sessions to missing 4 bc of the holidays, and at the same time do major trauma stuff. He reads SO much into being late or missing that I plan my life to never miss. It could be I am just too attached to him, and need to stop therapy. Not sure. But your comment was awesome and not painful lol.
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Originally Posted by unaluna
Your t had two choices for your session that day: announce at the beginning that he would be gone, in which case you would lose your time because you would be focused on him. Or announce at the end, and let you have your normal session.
So why are you afraid to continue to focus on you and not on him?
Or - can you use this time now to "have that session" as if he had announced at the beginning, and given you no more further information about it. Just, its a personal day, period.
Which was the point i was trying to make before, that it was just a personal day for him, and he didnt care to expand on it, for whatever reason. Im sorry i sounded like i was making light of the situation.
I think he thought you would not be this affected by it, which was a mistake on his part, and your reaction may have taken him by surprise?
Its taken me by surprise because we usually understand each other. I apologize for adding to your pain on this.
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