I would never be friends with a guy I had a fling with for 7 weeks, who treated me the way this guy treated eve. I wouldn't even want a reminder of that time. I mean, I just don't understand why eve needs that Christmas present from him.

I also don't Facebook add men I've had flings with, because that's just wrong, in my opinion. Why do they need to stay in contact with me if they rejected me? They don't. And I don't need to stay in contact with them.

If a man I date rejects me romantically, he doesn't get to walk away with my friendship as some type of consolation prize. You reject me, that's it. Buh-bye. I don't want to be friends with a man who has rejected me romantically. Because you're not really friends after you've dated; you're just casual acquaintances at best.

I think eve got a LOT of great advice here about her situation. But I find eve's defensive responses very strange, because of the way she has flip flopped about how she feels about this guy.

On one hand, she says she's moved on and already had sex with another guy. Yet, then she posts about how much she misses 7-week-fling guy, who she's already Facebook friends with (yet she asked if that was a good idea, but then when is told no, it isn't, gets mad which makes no sense to me, personally).

My advice is, don't ask people for advice that you don't want to hear. If you already know what you are going to do, then don't seek opinions from other people who may disagree with you. That's what I've seen happen here. My advice didn't help so I stopped responding to eve's posts. She obviously has made up her own mind, so she doesn't need anyone's advice.