No one badgered you, eve. No one feels protective of you either. I think you just wanted validation for your choices, but many posters in this thread didn't validate you the way you needed so that is what's really upset you. I stopped providing my opinion after you attacked me for pointing out how 7-week-fling guy rejected you (bolding your own words that you posted).

Obviously, you've moved on because you've already had sex with the next guy and kept 7-week-fling guy as your Facebook friend. So, why do you still need advice that you aren't even going to take? That's what I don't understand.