Oh, and when she was asking me questions about my plans for the future and saying how she said she "didn't have an agenda" and all that, I gave her ZERO information about anything. But not for the reason that you're thinking. I consciously thought that I should, just to see how things are going and if there is any chance of them not being narcs. But I simply couldn't bring myself, as these people just make me so anxious and on edge when talking about anything of substance like that, given their volatile and abusive history of "reactions" to everything.