Now uh, I'm gonna preface this by saying I'm an alter in a DID system and it's one of my alters that's dating the guy. I've never trusted him since the beginning, but things have gotten worse lately and now he's actually been debating breaking up with the guy.

Also, warning for mentions of pedophilia in the coming paragraphs.

For starters, the boyfriend in question is incredibly morally ambiguous. Prone to stealing. Kind of a kleptomaniac. We've chosen to look past this for a while. And he mentions from time to time that he cannot comment on choices we've made without being rude. Which is... hmm. :/

The main issue right now, though falls into a much worse category, one that is pretty personal to us. The boyfriend has a NSFW sideblog on tumblr and has been reposting pedophilic content (NSFW art of minors). He claims to not have known the age restrictions on what is "considered pedophilia". I don't completely believe him, but he did honestly apologize and erase the content from the blog after an explanation was made to him.

However, we're still exceedingly angry with him for not knowing this to begin with. But, he is also known to lack common sense on a lot of things like this, and we feel like maybe it's not entirely his fault.

I'm honestly pretty pinned on what we should do. We all are.

Our hosts are pretty attached to this guy, though, and it'd break their hearts to separate from him, but I personally think that he's bad for us in a lot of ways. Even they're starting to see the bad. But, we aren't sure how we would even go about breaking up with him. We want to do it gently because we feel not everything here is his fault. But... I don't know.