I have had several surprising moments either in or from therapy. The first time we played remote control cars, we were doing our own thing and I figured out that we could go over the chair legs in the conference room we were in. I excitedly asked her to watch what I figured out. She stopped what she was doing, watched what I figured out and then tried to do it herself. Later I got stuck and I asked her to help me get unstuck by pushing me with her car. She did. Both of these produced an amazing set of feelings in me. It's kind of hard to describe what goes on during these moments. They are not predictable, they are not something that can be scripted. For me, they are very powerful.