Interesting subject- I was on a site that deals with rekindling lost love and actually went the gamut for closure. I wrote and sent a letter of apology to a man I was deeply in love with and broke off the relationship. That was forty five years ago and I can honestly say I have never loved anyone the way I loved him. His daughter, age 25, responded to my letter saying that her dad asked her to respond as he was totally blinded in a car accident in his 20's and unable to read. I did not get closure; my first letter was to the point, lacking any real emotion. Had he been able to read I would have sent another telling him what was really in my heart and how it took me many years to figure this out after failed marriages, etc. However, in this instance, closure was not achieved and I carry this burden on a daily basis, knowing I will never meet anyone even remotely like him in my lifetime. Youth really is wasted on the young.