My mother did tell me I shouldn’t feel that way. I also meet all the hallmarks of other criteria for it.

I’m sure my mother has NPD and HPD. She’s never been to a psych and never would hear of going. Now that she’s elderly, she’s over the top wacko with this.

*worse than “shouldn’t” actually...she’d tell me I don’t feel the way I felt. Totally invalidated my feelings. I was not allowed to feel what I felt.