So I am definitely a loner and an introvert. I enjoy being alone. I don't enjoy doing things with people. Most people do end up hurting me and insulting me. For the most part I am happy with myself.
BUT... I am feeling that old itch. In the last year... I have gotten rid of a lot of "friends" and now that they are gone .. I am seeing maybe that wasn't the best thing. I want to have someone get me a present on xmas that doesn't suck. I want to have someone come over my house on occassion.
I need ONE good solid friend, male or female. I have to find one. But how.
I feel like I need to take advanced means.
1. the person needs to be like me. Work for most of my days and not a lot of time during the week.
2. the person needs to have my political views. I tend to attract people who are kind and compassionate.. which I am, but I am also tough and a little *****y. That typically comes as a suprise.
3. the person needs to be around the same age with the same concerns. Married women with kids need not apply because I don't want to spend my days talking about your kids (including your husband).
Now that I know what I want.. I need to determine where I could find this? Ironically I live in a small condo that is mostly women of my age and without kids... but for some reason they don't want to be friends with their neighbors. I suppose perhaps that is smart, (what if you have a falling out)
I feel like I have to take this slow and look for quality over quanity. But I need to find one.. surely there is one right?
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