Wmd, I think you nailed it, they are weak people that are totally selfish. I guess the motives really don’t matter.

Good analogy Tishie! I never thought of it that way.

Not that it excuses the act of course. I just had it categorized in my brain for so long that I found it disturbing to suddenly be questioning it and not know how to file it again. Since it doesn’t have a place right now, it’s just floating around up there and I’d really like to put it back away.

(((((Rapunzel))))) OMG I cannot even image what that would be like. I am so sorry that you feel that way!