My mother recently contacted after the death of my father. My mother wants to be in my life again, but I'm not sure if I want my mom to be in my life because I have really mixed feelings about my mom because of my childhood. During my childhood my father was physical, and sexually abusive to me and my mom never protected me from my father and she covered the abuse up for him and encouraged his abuse. I'm just not sure if I should give my mother a chance or not I need some advice.