This is a most very common thing, believe it or not. Almost everything we do, we do it to impress others. Like when we dress up, we want to look good in others eyes. When we cook, we want to impress others or collect their compliments.
But this gets harmful when we start to ignore our needs and our approval to make sure that they are pleased. I used to be that person but when I started to feel depressed I knew that I needed to change some things in my life.
Just get rid of those negative commenters who make you feel that you have to earn their approval and start hanging around with your loved ones. You will feel much lighter and burden-free. Always remember that those who make you feel any less than who you are does not deserve to be in your life.