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Originally Posted by Betrayed92
My mother recently contacted after the death of my father. My mother wants to be in my life again, but I'm not sure if I want my mom to be in my life because I have really mixed feelings about my mom because of my childhood. During my childhood my father was physical, and sexually abusive to me and my mom never protected me from my father and she covered the abuse up for him and encouraged his abuse. I'm just not sure if I should give my mother a chance or not I need some advice.
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Follow your heart. I was physically abused by my father . My mother never protected us. She was very toxic, too. She died abut 1 1/2 yrs ago. She was in my life but I ALWAYS had to set boundaries with her.
Weird to mourn someone who has hurt you. Do whatever works for you, not her.