It is hard to respond to this without having seen your interaction in person. But from what you have written, he sounds emotionally immature, and incredibly sensitive. I would not be able to put up with that kind of behaviour myself, as it would feel like dealing with a child and not a partner.

That being said, we are only seeing your perspective. I would not call his behaviour abusive per se, but there is definitely some miscommunication going on between you two. Have you considered couples counselling?