Thanks for responding scaredandconfused.

I guess I should have been more upfront and specific in my original post.I also have 2 kids(adults) that are addicts.As is my nephew,my MIL and what I am looking for is others who are 'currently' going through the same.

It's extremely difficult being surrounded by addicts and not letting myself get caught up in all their chaos and drama.Sometimes it's so hard to not take on their problems and remain detached.It's hard to not try to always help or fix them.It gets overwhelming at times.I don't want to lose myself in them.

I am currently attending Alanon meetings but I was hoping to connect with others here.