I let the tears flow and don't wipe them until I'm done crying. It seems like it's more of a catharsis this way, not trying to remove the emotional response. I understand those that wear makeup wanting to rid themselves of the tears quickly, but I don't see the point in makeup either. When I choose, or even if I choose to wipe them, I do throw the tissues away. I'm done with the tears at that point and don't need them any more.