Wait, I am confused, did this therapist actually say something dismissive of the way you are raising your kids, or are you just assuming that she will?

If it's the former, then sure, it's a problem. But if it's the latter, why are you assuming this?

I don't really care about age. My therapist is this old man. It's not who I would have chosen if I had been imagining the perfect person to talk to. I think it's important for client and therapist to "click" but I think making assumptions about age is a mistake.