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Old Jan 15, 2018, 11:30 PM
Anonymous54545
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Originally Posted by Jo1994 View Post
Thank you, how do you bring it up to your T?
I brought it up as something I was concerned about. I told her that I was well aware of the thereaputic boundaries thing and that I was wary of becoming too attached to her. I told her that I was already uncomfortable with how attached i was and that it felt like a bad thing. She turned around and normalized it, telling me that attachment didn't have to be a bad thing. She didn't think that what I was feeling was unhealthy but if it got to that point, we would discuss it.

So far that hasn't happened but the topic has come up a couple dozen times since then because I keep causing ruptures and all roads seem to lead back to my fearful-avoidant attachment style. Yaaaay. :P