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Old Jan 16, 2018, 08:24 AM
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Originally Posted by AllHeart View Post
I just finished a book about psychotherapy and it said many clients get attached to the therapy room. It can be like a sanctuary, so comfortable and safe. My t is moving in 2 weeks. I am also more attached to her awesome, cozy, safe space than I am to her. Makes perfect sense, schizoid or not, to feel attached to the room, I think.
I know what you mean by getting attached to the therapy room--my ex-T and MC had to move to a different office a year ago, and it was a difficult transition for me. Didn't help that ex-T complained about the new office (much smaller than her old one--as is MC's, though he didn't complain) pretty much every session. And I hate the waiting room in the new building (smaller and more cramped) and the different receptionist. It doesn't feel as safe to me.
Thanks for this!
AllHeart