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Originally Posted by Betrayed92
I think that I want my mother back into my life back I feel like my daughter should be able to meet her grandmother at least once and I also feel like this might be chance to have a healthy relationship with my mother. I also feel like I might be able to get a chance for closure on my past because I want to ask my mother why she let my father abuse me and why she encouraged the abuse before I forget I want you to know that I appreciate the advice.
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Could you carry out these ideas in reverse order? It seems like she needs to explain her past behavior in a way that you find acceptable before you can move on to developing a healthy relationship - and without the healthy relationship, it may not be a great idea to introduce her to your daughter.
Did she apologize at all when she reached out?