(((((((( freewill )))))))))
Everyone is different in this world. What works for some may not work for others. I have a lot of respect for you. You are doing what you feel is best and where you feel the most comfortable. If this works well for you, then no one should question it or try to make you change it. Not even your T.
Are we not all a "work in progress"??? Constantly changing, even if only small changes that are not always visible at first.
Many good thoughts and much love being sent your way!

sabby