I wan't able to be on yesterday... that you for your responses....

The insurance is under my son's name... but I pay the co-pays...

The T... was mine first... and foremost....

And why I "lost faith"... had to do with the fact that he had talked to Alex... and had seen no reason to not see them together... though for privacy reasons... the T and I did not discuss... whether it was for "relationship counseling".

The relationship counseling part.. came from my son...

Normally, the T and I... and my son and I never discuss what happens in therapy... we are all adults... it was to be private couseling... not family counseling.. I choose my counseler... because I knew... given my son's nature.. they would "click" andd they did.

Why I object.... well... I cannot stand... I mean stand this woman.... she has been so so so mean to me.. you have no idea... and mean to my son... and shoot.. she cheated on him... took money from me.. trips.. from me.. and treated me terribly...

so the thought... of her.. in my T.. office.. and he giving her therapy.. with my son... makes me doubt him...
that he really .... knows what is best for me... and whether... he can counsel... both of son and me... given the fact that he thinks it is OK... that she also come in...

That "blows" my mind... to have an "abuser"... who abused me... in receiving therapy... from my own T's..

How would you guys like it... if your abuser... walked into your T's office... and you shared him???

Just wondering what your reactions might be..