I agree. I’ll have to put on a smiling face and shut my mouth. That’s been the plan all along. But, what happened Thanksgiving and with the car was bad. While we hoped to bond better with his gf, what happened was the opposite.

We’ve all been fairly polite.

It’s not a her against me. I guess nobody gets how I am pissed how he didn’t trust and respect his parents.

He told us they were getting married! Then he and she and her parents...nobody acted like that was happening. It was all confusing and awkward. And unfortunately, his gf did not act like his SO. She stayed clear of us! We took him to buy a car, she steered clear, but then I caught him texting with her about it. Why didn’t she just come with us and act like his SO? Why the sneaky texting and distrust for us, the parents?

I’m just venting on here. I’m not going to say anything more about it. I’ll stay out of his way.

Yes, he would choose his gf over his mother. He already has. I raised a man and my job is done.