Thank you, I wrote her letter and she read it. she doesn't think my attachment is unhealthy but i do, she was really sensitive about it which was so nice. She asked if she could hug me (she hugs most of her clients) She said maybe i'm at tactually scared of being dependant and attached to her. and i said attachment is painful no matter what. It was a good conversation, she says she became really attached to one of her counsellors as well. I wish i asked how she handled it and how she recognized if it was healthy