The problem with the “everyone has baggage/issues” sentence is its broad personality, giving the illusion of equality. Because the truth is, people have different sorts of baggages, each its own weight and each person with his own skills to move forward regardless.

For example, the difference between depression and an argument with a spouse is vast

I know I’m being pessimistic, but I am frustrated of the fact I had friends who’d talk about the minor occasions like it’s a big deal, yet when I talk about a topic they’d show lack of intervention and interest